Post by plethorian on Mar 5, 2013 23:50:29 GMT -5
Okay guys, could use some tips here. I'm trying to get the bf to be more romantic and proactively so, but he doesn't seem to be getting it. I've straight up told him, and we've talked about it, and he always takes it really well-he says he understands and that he wants to make sure I'm happy, so he'll do his best to be more romantic and take the initiative. But it never seems to come to fruition! I'm still the one who plans all our dates, and I have to remind him that doing nice little things would be appreciated, over and over and over...
Have you guys had any experience with this? I've stopped mentioning it almost altogether now, because we've had the conversation so many times, and he gets sad when I think he isn't putting in enough effort! He is truly putting that effort in, it's just that it's not in the romantic direction I'd like.
Have you guys had any experience with this? I've stopped mentioning it almost altogether now, because we've had the conversation so many times, and he gets sad when I think he isn't putting in enough effort! He is truly putting that effort in, it's just that it's not in the romantic direction I'd like.
